LawCare - Am I the Only One?

LawCare - Am I the Only One?

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Am I the Only One?
by Mary Jackson, Co-ordinator (Ireland), LawCare

Recently I watched The King’s Speech which I had missed when it first came out. What struck me most vividly was not the king’s speech impediment but his fear; fear of being constantly judged inadequate, of never quite being up to the mark, in the shadow of his older, more articulate brother, and under scrutiny from his father. That set me thinking about the voices staff and volunteers on the LawCare helpline listen to on a daily basis.

 

Many LawCare helpline callers are very much like the king in the film; afraid and lacking in confidence, often looking for someone else to blame, ashamed of their own perceived sense of inadequacy. Often callers ask “Am I the only one?” “Are there other people like me?” Lawyers often feel it’s important to appear competent and confident, whatever their personal insecurities and inadequacies. It can be reassuring to hear that many professionals feel like our callers – uncertain, anxious, and second-guessing themselves on a daily basis.
 
The LawCare helpline works because, like the therapist in the film, we endeavour to be non-judgmental, empathetic and keen to build trust.
The helpline is confidential: crucial when a caller is going through a very difficult time. Logue, the speech therapist, was not remotely fazed by his client’s status but keen to help him overcome barriers and progress. We on the helpline are in an extraordinary fiduciary position, not there as judge and jury but there to listen, give support, signpost try to hear what is not being said.

If you are going through a tough time, LawCare’s free and confidential helpline is available on 0800 279 6888 from 9 a.m. to 7.30 p.m. on weekdays and 10 a.m. to 4 p.m. at weekends / UK public holidays. Or check out our website at


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